Nigerian media personality Morayo Afolabi-Brown has sparked a wide-ranging conversation after revealing a troubling but common warning many Nigerian parents give their children before they travel to the United States – to avoid associating with African Americans and instead seek the company of white people.
Speaking during an episode of her popular TVC show Your View, Afolabi-Brown recounted how this so-called “pep talk” is often passed down out of fear and stereotypes. According to her, this kind of guidance, though likely well-meaning in intent, creates a divide between African immigrants and Black Americans, and reinforces negative biases.
“Not every Nigerian may have received this talk, but many have,” she said.
“You’re told not to mix with Black Americans, warned about drugs or unwanted pregnancies, and encouraged to settle among white communities. That kind of advice shapes your perception before you even land in America.”
She explained that such preconceived notions cause African immigrants to view Black Americans with judgment, which in turn creates visible tension between the groups.
According to her, these sentiments overlook the fact that it was Black Americans’ historical sacrifices that helped create opportunities for Africans and others of color in the U.S.
Afolabi-Brown didn’t shy away from pointing out that some African immigrants tend to align themselves with white people, while distancing from African Americans — a behavior Black Americans often recognize and resent.
“They see the judgment and the way you treat white people with deference. And of course, that creates resentment,” she added.
The clip, shared by Onsite Africa on Instagram, ignited reactions online. One commenter wrote, “Africans, especially Nigerians, love to mimic Black American culture when it suits them.” Another user, King Keraun, simply stated, “We lowkey knew this.”
A Nigerian commenter also admitted receiving similar warnings.
“I got that talk, too,” they wrote. “But I was humbled quickly when I faced racism from white people during nursing school. They saw me as a threat. That’s when I realized the value of what Black Americans have endured for us to be here. I’ve learned my lesson.”
