A Nigerian mental health nurse based overseas whose name is yet to be identified, has gone viral after defending her decision to leave the country, responding to a social media critic who called her a “happy slave abroad.”
In a widely circulated video, the nurse, who practiced in Nigeria for 12 years, said she was proud of the label because her life has significantly improved since relocating.
“I was called a happy slave abroad. And I say this with joy, yes, I’m happy, and I’m free,” she said.
According to her, despite over a decade of professional work in Nigeria, she was unable to afford a used Toyota Camry, yet within three months of working abroad, she bought a Mercedes-Benz.
“I couldn’t buy a Camry 2.2 in Nigeria even after 12 years of work. But after just three months abroad, I drove home a Mercedes-Benz,” she said.
She also revealed that she has been able to acquire a three-bedroom duplex through a mortgage system — a financial opportunity she claims is almost impossible to access for average Nigerians back home.
She added, “In Nigeria, after a hard day’s work, you get insulted. Here, after a shift, patients give you flowers and cake to say thank you,” she said.
Reflecting on her time in Nigeria, she expressed deep frustration over insecurity and poor governance.
She recounted near-constant fear triggered by violent news headlines and the toll it took on her mental health.
“I was almost developing post-traumatic stress before I left. Every day it was bomb blasts, killings, and kidnappings. “Now, I have peace of mind, steady income, and a government that even refunds my taxes.”
She compared that to her experience with Nigeria’s civil service, where she claimed she is still owed her “first 28 days” salary from over a decade ago.
“I served Nigeria for 12 years and they never paid me my first 28 days. Meanwhile, abroad, I overpaid tax and they refunded over $5,000 to me,” she added.
Though critical of the Nigerian system, she expressed love for her country, stating that she would return to invest if things improved.
“I’m still proudly Nigerian. I’ll go back if the country becomes better. But for now, I will not apologize for enjoying peace and progress elsewhere.”
